Color vs Character!!!!

Color vs Character!!!!

Hmmmm….Ever wondered which century are u living in….Phat *21^st century* wud come as the reply from most of the people…but still do u really think its 21^st century??

Just think about it!!!

Ooh I don’t have a problem with a guy being gay…m all with it…but deep down inside the moment he leaves u make fun of him…

U still run away from eunuchs and behave rudely to them....

U still don’t talk about ur past openly to anyone…..n still say “Ooh im quiet outgoing”

U discriminate people on their races,colors,religion

Don’t tell me this doesn’t happen in India…..we say We r really secular n open about everything

But I don’t think so !!!!!

We say “V RNT RACIST”

N we term gujaratis- Gujjus,marwadis

Punjabis- Paaape

Bengalis-Banglas

Telugus-Katles

N what not…n still we say aaaah…we r not like racist…..many people have been grown up on santa n banta jokes…pulling the Punjabi’s legs each time……

Well this article doesn’t go with the topic..doesnt it….but keep on reading fellas ….in few moments m gonna show u the real scenario of THE GREAT INDIAN(HYDERABADI)WEDDING…..how it goes in Hyderabad…..

Therez a great saying

People can be divided into three classes, the few who make things happen, the many who watch things happen, and the overwhelming majority who have no idea what has happened.

So u decide which class do u fall in?????

Well me being a great hyderabadi fan…n ardent lover!!! When I see people crib about Hyderabad I’ve always stood up for it no matter what!!!! But then lately when ive been experiencing things ive started to hate many things that goes around here !!!

A typical add for a wedding goes like this

“Wanted bride who is very very very fair n good looking and should be 18-23 yr old, people already contacted please don’t contact”

or

Urgent Matrimonial

And everything goes around the color of the gurl!!!

Im sure many of you people might be going through this but none of us bother to open their mouth and say the truth

There are only 2 ways how u can get a guy to get married to u

1. Either u should have looks like Aishwarya Rai
2. Or u should have money like Bill gates or Anil Ambani

Me being unlucky in both the criteria’s (heheh)

The list doesn’t stop here…..if u think this is all u gotaa have to get married(arranged) then u r in for surprises……..firstly u have to fulfill the obligations of the bridegroom’s mom dad n then there r the obligations made by the bridegroom himself!!!!

Im damn sure many of you after reading this article would comment

“Dear sis…I think you r going through the same scenario and that’s y u wrote about it…….”

Or

“World is not full with such kind of people……u r mistaken”

Or

“Ooh things don’t go around like this lately”

But my dear fellow hydros…this is wat ur mom’s,sister’s,dad’s do when they call @ our places!!!

They say

“Baccha Amrika mei hai!!!kamaaraa…aapki bacchi GORI TOH HAI NAAA” meaning

(Guy is in America.Earning good bucks..IS UR DAUGHTER FAIR???)

Suppose everything is fixed also…and ur mom dad know the where abouts of the guy in US…then they come to know….guy has no job he’s been working @ the gas station or driving a cab!!! and the guy’s mom dad care a less….

They do care to come visit the girl…..ask her millions of questions….ok let me give u my example……

When a potential match had come to see me!!! What happened to me!! !

Me(waiting for them to come n see me kinda nervous)

Enter the hall :

Potential Mom in law Sitting(PMIL)

Potential Sister in Law(PSIL)

My mom

PMIL :ooh come come

ME : J

PMIL : What’s ur name (as if she doesn’t know)

ME: I introduce my self

PMIL: so what did u study(DUH WHAT A DUMB QUESTION)

ME:I again tell it to her

All the while PSIL Is watching me

PMIL: so wat are ur future plans

ME : J (IM ROFL In MY HEART)

PMIL :what happened

ME : J nothing aunty J

PMIL : do u know to cook (duh as if she wants to open a restaurant)

ME :Ahan yeah J

My mom interrupts says : Ooh ive given her a wonderful training in cooking………blah blah blah

PMIL : J

PSIL : whats ur height

ME :- ahem I say my height

PSIL : can I chck it ( as if she’s carrying a measuring tape with her and trying to check it )

ME: SURE J

PSIL: can u take ur shoes off

ME : (giving irritated looks @ my mom ) sure

PSIL :oooh yeah shes ok!!( as if shes taller or equal to me)

Now comes the center shock :P

I wanna go inside and PMIL starts with her stupid logical questions!!!!

And then I ask my mom can I go!!! She says ahan no not yet!! Then PSIL n PMIL have a discussion

I eavesdrop im good @ it

PSIL; toh kya bolre ammi(so what do u say mom)

PMIL: kya hai ki sab acchi hai bacchi lekin thoda color kam hai nai !!!(I don’t know everything is fine but she is lil dark)

PSIL:toh kya boleinge (while eating her pastries n drinking coke like a pig )(“so what do we say)

U knw many people just come to have refreshments !!!

PMIL:”khamoosh hojaainge ghar ku jaake”(WE’LL B SILENT)

Then they talk something which I cud not hear properly !! n then they leave

N I feel so horrible!!!!!!

coz just coz of my mom dad I get ready to sit infront of them …….a guy who I think is not worth enough for me…..n who is as educated as im….and if I had my chance I wud surely be more successful than him….but yet!! I still go and sit!!!!

N then they never bother to call back!!!they r just meant to go on refreshments picnics!!n m not @ all interested in such filthy,stinky,ignorant people!!

I shared this experience just to let people like these know!!

How it feels to judge a person by their color n not by their character !!

Shed those veils of yours people….dont b hypocrites!!b what u r ….if u r not ok with something communicate…..dont go and hibernate in ur homes!!!!!

Its high time….u actually practice what u preached!!

The world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress.

People say they love truth, but in reality they want to believe that which they love is true.

WAKE UP PEOPLE!!!

Adios people!!!!!!

WHopeee Ever felt to Shout out like this!!!!Dreams DO come True....

Hello ....Well lately ive not been blogging.....yeaahhhhhhhh...but then its ok i guess....well people...M so happyyyyyyyy Right now!!!as people always say!!!

When one door closes the other is left open for us....n i never took it seriously...but ......yeah.....this gives us a chance to feel sometimes what people say is Really Right....For instance....I had once dreamt that i wud have a flora pencil(brand of a pencil which was forbidden for me to use as i used to loose em very easily..n i was in pre primary then)and that dream did come true....when i was in first grade :P.....it took some time...but i got my hands on that pencil......little did i know...as i started growing up....my dreams also went up!!!i started dreaming BIG.....suddenly i wanted to b IAS officer....yeah....Weird aint it!!! i wanted to DON that khakee color uniform and catch all the thieves!!haha...n im still serious about it......Wish i could really do that right now!!

Well the point is....even if i had dreamt being a IAS officer n i bought myself a dress and did ape like one...that was just one stepping stone to my success!!yeah.......
Well when i realize the things in my past...i really laugh...Girls want to become models,brides,actress,what not!!i wanted to become...

IAS OFFICER
JOURNALIST
LAWYER
SOFTWARE PROFESSIONAL(ALLHUMDULLILAH WHICH IM NOW)
A CRICKETER
A BSB PLAYER
A WRESTLER...HEHEH WEIRD ONE...MY FRIENDS USED TO CALL ME HHH ;)

well...@least i accomplished one of my dream....but then i m still not satisfied with it....I still want to move ahead with life..want to leave my mark where ever i go!!!!!
Welll after i completed my Engineering....my DAD wanted me to complete MBA!!but then i wanted to complete it from IBS!!!!which was not possible......Firstly they want 2-3 yrs of Work xpereince.....then next they would send application letters to candidates n for that i did not go for any other UNI.I was waiting for the right chance..
and after having a work experience of 2 yrs i finally got a application from the UNI.and somewhere down the line i feel so elated and happy that i wanna share it with the world......@least m standing where i wanted to b...selection n rejection is another thing but applying @least for it is a dream Come true for me!!!n yeah @last i feel sayin
WHOPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Keep Dreaming people..U never know when ur Dreams Come true!!!!doesnt matter whether it is the whole dream or the just a part of the dream.......it doesnt matter Really .....wat matters is.....u dared to dream n a part of is turned to reality!!!
Adios!!!
B wide awake

Back again

Hey there lovely people.....its been a while since ive posted somethin...yea bein a lil bit busy with latest developments in my life.....
1.Firstly m tryin to cope with my skin breakin out very badly...m going through a treatment(umm nothing serious just a pimple treatment) :P
2.Ive gained like 10 pounds in past like 2 months..yea n still m being the biggest looser......
3.Really trying to figure out whether being a girl in India is a blessing or a curse
4.Trying hard to do somethin out of my life apart from being home n sleeping all day round
Whew there are quiet a lot of developments going around lately......wudnt imagine me standing at this stage of my life where everyone goes through............
Well Its been a scary roller coaster ride for me though.........ummm m cookin rite now...see u all in a while
Adios :-)